Contour Enthusiasts Group Archives Forums General Common Interests What is infidelity, exactly?

Do you honestly think you can have a "deep" relationship without having the same sort of feelings you have for your wife? I am naive but I believe in openness in a relationship and you should be able to talk to your wife about this. I know a lot of people here that have outside relationships and I think it's really a [censored] thing to do to someone you have a commitment to. I would say find a way to not be around her. Do you feel guilty when you think about her? I don't think thougts are bad but when you constatly think about another woman I believe there is something wrong with that. Remember I am pretty naive and I am sure people will say not to worry about it.