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Originally posted by Bullet:

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Geez, so much harshness. You don't know a thing about me or her so how can you say with certainty that its gonna fail? So you've had a rough go of it, so have I. Big deal. But yet I'm whipped if I want to do a little something to show I care more than just acknowledging her presence. Obviously I came to the wrong place.

EDIT: Thanks for the reply Lilredrocket.

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You're welcome. Good luck with your girlie. IMHO, your not whipped.. you've just found a girl who's a little bit more important in your eyes. Divorce is high and so is relationship turmoil, but they are for reasons other than what you are doing. Show her a good time (not in the way that sounds), ofourse, women (the good kind) don't look for THAT in the early or even mid stages of a relationship. They want to see that you care and think about her a lot. They want to feel like you sound trumpets when she walks in the room, or that you throw doves in the air as she walks away from you. EVERY girl wants that, whether they admit it or not. They are really seraching for the "shining night in armor." Now, we don't usually go that far, or when we do, don't always mean it to the full extent, I mean.... we are guys. We get distracted EASILY. We say "uh-huh" and "okay honey" and "right" to most of her questions. It's our nature to be bad listerners, lol. Now, ofcourse I don't suggest taking up horn lessons or buying some white birdies, but I can tell... atleast from where you and I stand on viewing relationships, you know deep down what to do.

Hey Honkey..

Y'know... the "strip club thing" and the "it wasn't fun cause you weren't there thing".... I've heard that too works well, strangely . Women love to know that you idelize them and put them on a "pedastile" high above the rest.... in any situation or with any other female.