I don't even know where to begin.
Celebrating 1 month anniverseries are like counting your first pubic hairs: It's stupid and disgusting.
I've done it, regretted it, and would do it differently in hindsight and I'm sure others here would agree.
Wait for the 1 year mark before spending your money that can be much better used towards your car..... Or better yet get a bike. The return on investment is much higher.
I mean if the fu(king DIVORCE rate is 50%, imagine what the relationship-ending rate must be. Be picky, be choosy, and be patient.
We don't have to understand you, we just know that every situation is the same.
