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Next Friday to be more precise. The thing is that me and my girl won't be together at that time so does anybody have any ideas for something that I could do from here? I'm already in the process of writing a letter (old fashioned I know  ) and am going to write a poem to include with it. Just looking for basic things. Gotta keep the fancy stuff for later down the line. 
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Hm, one monther? Depends what she likes! Could always get her something small too. Brownie points, bro Good luck to you and your girl.
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Hmm. Flowers? Have a sky writer write something above her domicile? Send her jewlery FedEx?
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One Month..............
Your whipped and I'm betting you aint even been there yet.
Seriously, when this relationship fails, and it will, that $50 you just blew on flowers or whatever it is that you buy her will seem really stupid.
Forget the letter, just drop her a call and say "Hey I just realized we had our first date a month ago today, so when are we getting together for our next" and let it roll from that point without getting caught up in all the drama. Ensure the phone call comes from a place like the mall or while your at work, maybe in-between clasess. Make it look spontaneous rather than planned. Girl gonna think your some psycho stalker smothering kinda guy if you start showering her with gifts and crap at 30-days.
I know you will not follow my advice but in 5yrs after you have been aroound the block a few times you will be kicking yourself for not following my advice and other guys advice just like this.
And Yes, I Dr. Phil, have approved this message! 
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I agree, although I dunno if I'd say it so bluntly. I personally never celebrated such anniversaries, but I'm also not a romantic either. some people dig that sappy crap, some don't. I've dated some guys that tried to write poems and all that, and it just made me think "  oh crap, I'm with a doormat, better not let this thing drag on for too long"
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Originally posted by frenchblueC2:
I agree, although I dunno if I'd say it so bluntly.
Sorry for my bluntness Kim 
and of course I'm at work, its busy season ya know, and I'm PO'd since I've been working 15hr days all week. And that little prissy [censored] called in sick today. F her and her convertible BMW. 
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Originally posted by Bullet:
Next Friday to be more precise. The thing is that me and my girl won't be together at that time so does anybody have any ideas for something that I could do from here? I'm already in the process of writing a letter (old fashioned I know ) and am going to write a poem to include with it. Just looking for basic things. Gotta keep the fancy stuff for later down the line.
Dude, your balls called. They want to move back home from your girlfriends house.
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One month anniversary? Damn. You celebrate anniversaries based on the phases of the moon, I celebrate them based on the color of the moon!  Like others said, unless you're 14 and whipped you should take it slower than writing poems and sending flowers. Also, you must make sure that she wants to recognize the day in the same way you are. You don't want to set up a trail of rose petals into the bathtub where you have champagne and a hot bubble bath and have her ask what it's all for.
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I wrote this to my ex you can use it
30 days have passed by
And never once did I want to die
my love for you grows date by date
especially when minime and your mouth mate
My friends all said you were all used up
But I couldn�t resist that big ghetto butt
Come to think of it they may he right
8 of them called and said they had you last night
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oh my god, thats funny! Hahahahahaaaaaaa. *composes one's self* Anyways, I agree.. make sure she feels the same way at this time. Theres nothing like being in the fourth quarter with seconds to left, but the other person still in the locker room getting dressed.... understand?? Now, thats not to say that you may feel MORE for her than she does you... and that is natural. But if you think she will go for you in away that is more beyond "first date love" then just tell her how you feel.... good things can happen, and bad things too.  . You may find out how deep down she feels about you.. could be more or less than you relized.  I celebrated our 1 month aniversary, 6 month, 1 year, then 2 year, then 3 year... and so on. I've been with my GF for almost 4 years. Now I didn't drop the "L" bomb on her for a few months. It takes time to really know its love. When you jump in too quickly, you may regret you didn't take a few moments to make sure there weren't rocks in the pond. So what did I do on my 1 month aniverasry.... well, I made her dinner (homemade fettuchini alredo, salad, ambroshia, homemade bread with cinnamon butter, and steamed baby pea pods) and I suprised by taking her to a park and having a picnic. Bought her a small bouquet of flowers (not roses.. to early for roses) and then went out and saw a movie. Very nice time. Ofcourse, you won't be with her.. but she can always take a rain check Anywyas, get her a card, right how you feel, and a bouquet of carnations or spring blend and a teddy bear (total cost, about 25 bucks) and give it to her in a box and tell her to open it on Friday. SHe'll love it, she'll dig you more, and all will be awesome. Props on the anniversary.
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