Ray,
You have cute little girl. My wife is due in 5 weeks with our 3rd child, so we share your excitement.
You hit bullseye with the clicking problem. After locking the doors, either with the fob or pushing the button on the door, the clicking starts. I do get the motor whirr.
When I unlock the doors,the clicking stops.
Guess I have to replace the relay? If so, any tips?
Thanks,
Dan