|
|
|
|
Joined: Jun 2000
Posts: 5,854
Hard-core CEG'er
|
Hard-core CEG'er
Joined: Jun 2000
Posts: 5,854 |
Originally posted by Bullet:
I don't see how him sticking around is going to make everyone uncomfortable. He asked her for an answer and she gave it to him. Same as I did with another girl in the past. But I never once held it against her, even when I heard that she found someone else. I respected her honesty and moved on. I know this is the way life is, but theres right and wrong ways of dealing with things. I'm seaching for the right way.
Do you talk to that girl the same as you did before??
I shouldn't speak in terms of forever, but this is something that's going to be in the back of your friends mind for a while. And it's probably going to hurt him real bad for a while. Especially since she's getting with one of his friends. Rejection effects everyone differently. The "right way" really doesn't have anything to do with you.
We're talking about something he hasn't even done yet though. All i'm saying is if he does do it, don't hold it against him and don't act surprised either. Don't they say if you really love something you should let it go? Of course nobody meant for anyone to get hurt, but it's still pretty much a slap in the face and he's going to need some time to sort stuff out. Everybody handles this kind of thing differently, you can't expect him to get over it just because you did one time.
This is the kinf of thing that ruins friendships. It's just not a good situation to be in. Everyone talks about "bros before hoes," but every once in a while you find that girl to which none of the rules apply. I've been in this situation a few times before. There's a couple of girls I wound up just growing apart from, and some I still talk to occasionally. Girls make guys do some crazy things.
1999 Silver Frost SVT
#609 of 2760
Quaife, lightened SVT Flywheel, SPEC stage II clutch, removed resonator, k&n drop in - various other goodies too.
|
|
|
|
|
Joined: May 2002
Posts: 3,345
Hard-core CEG'er
|
|
OP
Hard-core CEG'er
Joined: May 2002
Posts: 3,345 |
Well, I would like to thank everyone for their advice in regard to this situation. It all got laid on the table tonight and he is ok. It was alot to take in he said but it wasn't that big of a surprise, he saw it coming. So yeah, its a relief anyway. Thanks again. 
1996 MM
Zetec, ATX
192000 kms...not dead, but I'm not fixing it
White people love Wayne Brady because he makes Bryant Gumbel look like Malcolm X.
|
|
|
|
|
Joined: Jul 2001
Posts: 2,974
Hard-core CEG\'er
|
|
Hard-core CEG\'er
Joined: Jul 2001
Posts: 2,974 |
Originally posted by Bullet:
Well, I would like to thank everyone for their advice in regard to this situation. It all got laid on the table tonight and he is ok. It was alot to take in he said but it wasn't that big of a surprise, he saw it coming. So yeah, its a relief anyway. Thanks again.
Congrates dude  and once again CONGRADULATIONS ON GETTING M and I told you this would happen:tounge:
Aaron
AKA NVS SVT
98.5 Silver/Blue SVT#4553
Yeah it's modded
98 T-Red/Blue SVT Contour Totaled 06/05/06
03 3L,VCN 2000,CAT Cams,MSDS Headers w/Y-Pipe,XCal2 and lots more
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
