bro's before ho's is very true

If you have a longstanding GF that is one thing but in this situation, you gotta stick with your homeboy and find another girl. IT also depends on how old you guys are too. And the only way to soften the blow between your relationship with him is if he hears it from the girl. If he hears it from you it will sound like you were sheisting him all along. I missed out on dating a girl that I really liked once and I knew she was down for me because I got to know her while she was dating one of my friends and then a different one of my friends. One night she said "Dave how come we never dated?" I told her because it would have been too messy of a situation even though I knew the other guys weren't right for her