Delmar - I agree. When is too much, too much? When you can no tell whether you have knees/elbows etc. That's when!
We are not meant to be blobs. We're supposed to be mobile.
Yup, I woke up on the insensative side of the bed today. In all honesty, I'm glad he's seeking help. It's pretty darn far down the road, but at least he's seaking help.