You really are overlooking the effectiveness in the solid motor mount in quelling wheel hop, stop complaining and built one.
As for launch technique I ride the clutch out at the point the car hits full boost 3800 for me. I have felt that if I go any lower my initial gas pedal modulation for low boost is thrown off by the rapid change in hp. Riding the clutch out allows me to compensate equally through first gear.
With this technique in first gear I have been only 1 car behind numerous high powered 4wd cars such as evo and sti.
