Well, I think there is one point that has only been mentioned once and that I agree with. What are your long term plans for this relationship. If you say that this relationship has a potential future, then giving it up for "pie in the sky" would be idiotic. If however this is "puppy Love" and you are not sure if the moment you leave one or both of you are going to hop in the sack with someone/anyone, then it is only fair to call the relationship off. The third option is still to put the relationship "on hold", with the understanding that she or you can move on. What is that stupid saying, "if you love something, set it free..."
I can understand the draw of many, rumoured to be easy, hot college girls that you can potentially bag. I suspect that EVERY man thinks about this and wonders... hmmm if I were not with the woman I am with, my evening would be filled with different hot women every night. (Yes, even happily married guys think that - and if they say they don't, they lie). Question is, is it worth it, and it rarely is.
