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a picture would really help matters here. . .I'd say dump her though, time to start fresh, there's so much out there. and she has a lot of growing to do. . .
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Originally posted by Chris Rock:
...Commitment can give you a headache every now and then, but new pu$$y always clears your mind.
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Originally posted by Nate S:
i know college is all about meeting new people, -nate
So is alzheimer's but it's not for everyone!
Let me see your parental units have moved from Cleveland( A great move buy the way!) So even if you go home it wouldn't be to Cleveland correct?
Let her go!
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Nate S. I was in a similar predicament last year. I had starting dating a girl that I met in highschool towards the end of the year. We both went to college hers being only 20min away from mine. Sure we spent some good times together, but it wasnt untill we broke up towards the end of our freshman year that I realized I missed out on so much. Plus I was at her school so much she had plenty of friends after we broke up where as I had a lot of catching up to do.
Now being a sophmore I look back and have some regret for letting it go on. I could have ended it and not have been so hurt and had a good time in college. Instead I kept it going, had an unfun freshman year, and almost six months later I am still having some trouble getting over her and we had only been together a year...
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I have learned the hard way and so will you...but there are three things i noticed which you should think about
1-you have only been dating 3 months
2-She is still in high school
3-long distance is a [censored]
Trust me freshmen yr you will want to have fun and meet lots of ppl and yes possibly have lots of sex...
but seriously those 3 things are really gonna hurt your relationship. Objectivley you should break up with her and move on..
But realistically you will probably tuff it out...and end up being that guy who is always on the phone with his gf during orientation and wind up having a boring college life.
I know this only cuz i did it...but i was with the girl for over a yr.. and i finally took time off to enjoy college..
then we got back together and now its been 3.5yrs..
If you truly love her all this mumbo jumbo doesnt even matter..cuz you will ultimatley will do what you want.
You have to risk something to gain something.
At worst you end up coming home to her on breaks and hooking up right? hehe
good luck and keep me posted
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dude i did a long distance relationship with a girl in high school my first 2 years in the navy and it was hard but the distance makes you fall for something that isnt actually there. believe me it changes if you let that brew and then one day are together for good. i moved my girl out here to live with me and the high school side of her from when we first hooked up and the fact that we only saw eachother every once in a while hid a lot of things and honestly, i cant fu*king stand her now  i would say that you should be living YOUR life and focusing on enjoying YOURself. go to college and hang out with yer wang out there will be plenty of time later and another will come when that time is up. im in a somewhat similar situation so i understand...im about to be free from the military and have to make the decision wether or not to stay with this girl or enjoy life back home as a civilian again and i think that i want to be me and enjoy a variety of natures lovesponges
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OK, I didn't take the time to read all the posts. And, I might have had a few beers. But, you should have posted a fourth option. Stay with her AND sleep with new girls. Just make sure (since you're only a freshman) not to sleep with ugly girls, because it will ruin your reputation. If you only sleep with hot chicks, then other hot chicks will want to sleep with you. Young girls are stupid. Use it to your advantage. You shouldn't be mature enough yet to care.
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Originally posted by klavender:
And, I might have had a few beers.
there was a 3rd option to stay with here and see other people with a little guy next to it...keep drinkin buddy...i wish i was a "few" brews deep and not at work
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just an update, in case any of you guys are actually interested in what i decided to do...(riiight...haha)
Originally posted by klavender:
OK, I didn't take the time to read all the posts. And, I might have had a few beers. But, you should have posted a fourth option. Stay with her AND sleep with new girls
well...i was thinking about that, and that is certainly possible, but i dont know if i could do that...
thanks for your opinions though, ive decided to dump her when i see her in a few days...  . you guys are right, and it would be impossible to see her, its not worth it, etc. its time to start over in college and meet new people.  maybe in a few years we'll get back together, who knows. anyways, thanks for your advice, it really got me thinking.
maybe when i see her ill want to do the "fourth option." or third option- stay with her and sleep with other people. thats pretty sleazy though... thoughts on that?
im going to do it towards the end of my visit though so i can get some action in before i do
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Originally posted by vudusvt:
No cars allowed?! You gonna be going to the University of NoModernConveniences? GO FIGHTIN' AMISH! MOVE THAT BALL! 
You 2 need to just agree to see other people and see what happens.
yeh i'm goin to college and can't have a car for the first year (campus is half the town anyway)
at my orientation for college the people said stand up if you are coming here with a significant other.. when a bunch of people stood up they said "i give that 2 weeks, sit back down"
i think that if you even have to ask what to do about it you should just break it off before you get there, then it won't stop you from meeting some really cool people.
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