Contour Enthusiasts Group Archives Forums General Common Interests relationship time- dump her or keep her?

Originally posted by SAV-ZX2:

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I forewarn you that almost everybody else who reads this post will be damned quick to point out that 3 months is hardly long enough to be 'in love'.

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thats the first thing i thought.

anyway, i would stop dating her (its only been 3 months!!). especially with the age difference. 2 years ago i was a freshman, and the last thing i would have wanted was to be tied down to someone. i am by no means saying that i "hooked up" constantly (not nearly as much as i should have ), but i just enjoyed being on my own and not having to worry about someone else. i broke up with someone too when i left, but we both knew it was for the best. we are still great friends and i see her from time to time when im back in Fl.

i guess it works for some people, so maybe you shouldnt be so quick to decide. if she knows whats up she should understand if it happens later. so maybe its worth trying, but for me it wouldnt work. there is plenty of time later to be dating. i started a relationship a couple of months ago, a much better time for me, and i couldnt be happier.

by the way, get ready for the best years of your life!