Haven't been offered the second, and the first wants me to call em back w/ an answer either way. I know doing what I want is worth less money, especially since it is long term...
I can't accept the first and back out. The head of IT was supposed to put in a word for me, and if he did do that, I don't want to make him look bad. His mother-in-law is good friends with my mom, so, yea, that wouldn't go over too well.