Thanks everyone, its not to everyones taste i know not even mine in some ways, heres a list of the things you asked bout guys.
1/The lights are made by morettes,
www.morette.com.2/The rear lights are pretty common over here but theres no other style rear light and just wanted a change from the norm.
3/The skirts do look dogdy due to some back street garage making S£$% job of fitting things and now there stuck on till i get the cash to buy some more.
4/The pics were taken when i had 17inch alloys on (27th june 2004) ive just collected my 19inch alloys today and fill out the rear a LOT more.
5/The spoiler i got on ebay, but am in the process of searching for summink a bit different.
6/The rear i really didnt know what to do with it, didnt want a line going straight acroos the back and being boring so done that and now regret it, oh well to late now.
7/Id love to come over, but work my arse off doing 70hr weeks to pay the loans of for the motor.
Thanks for the comments tho guys.