dont worry girl, your only 17 you have a long ways to go. One day you will find a guy that will charish you and treat you like a queen. When ever you meet a guy and the moment that he does you wrong, leave his a$$ behing, you dont need taht shiznitz. A side note, my fiancee has a kid by another guy and well the guy is an a-hole and she doesnt have custody of her kid. But should i get her something for mothers day, i know she is not going to get anything from noone else, but i feel bad having her not get anything. Shes my queen and i want her to be happy? what should i do, she told me she didnt want anything, and i shoulnt because he aint my kid? what should i do?