I'm not sure about the carb-cleaner, I suppose it could work fine. I, and others, have used an air intake and throttle body cleaner (it says just that on the bottle). I might try to find some if I were you. As for the warning...its believed to be safe to ignore it, I did and I'm a couple thousand miles later with no problems (think about it do you want a dirty throtle body where that coating is covered up by grime anyway...or a clean one??)
Also I did not follow the diections on the bottle, which said to spray the fluid in while the engine is running, this may work but it also works just to pull the throttle body and intake apart, douse them in the cleaner and then start scrubbing. I used a tooth brush and some dental tools and got it about as clean as you can. Good Luck, its well worth the effort.