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I feel for you, just dont do anything stupid, there are plenty of women out there! The same thing happened to me, and 2 months later I found my wife-to-be  Someone that makes me VERY happy and will do anything for me. My life has changed because of my ex (who cheated on me too), but for the better!
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Hey man.. i feel your pain. But the one thing you should worry about now, is your child. Make sure she's happy, and healthy. If she sees you being strong like that, you'll eventually get a hold of yourself, and things will be clear. Also, it doesn't hurt to take a vacation. *cough* Hawaii *cough*... maybe you might meet someone there.. Take your daughter with you, and have fun. Take care of yourself now Ren
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Dude I know how you feel,it will take time but you will get over it and better things will come.You will look back on this one day in your happier future and thank god that this crap is all over with.Its really really not worth worring yourself sick over.Its just a page in life.I had this happen to me before.I left and a year later met my wife and now have two beautifull girls.I couldnt bear worring my self sick everyday wondering what SHE was doing where and with who.I had to go.I know you love the girl but the trust is gone and may never come back,surely never fully,you will always have a doubt in your head when she is not around.Give yourself some space and get with some friends and have a little fun,hit some clubs.It worked for me.We dated for 4 years and I was extreamly close to her family(the hard part).Keep your chin up,dont let her see you down.Take care of your daughter,she will always be there for dad.
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Originally posted by -HWCM-: Dude I know how you feel,it will take time but you will get over it and better things will come.You will look back on this one day in your happier future and thank god that this crap is all over with.Its really really not worth worring yourself sick over.Its just a page in life.I had this happen to me before.I left and a year later met my wife and now have two beautifull girls.I couldnt bear worring my self sick everyday wondering what SHE was doing where and with who.I had to go.I know you love the girl but the trust is gone and may never come back,surely never fully,you will always have a doubt in your head when she is not around.Give yourself some space and get with some friends and have a little fun,hit some clubs.It worked for me.We dated for 4 years and I was extreamly close to her family(the hard part).Keep your chin up,dont let her see you down.Take care of your daughter,she will always be there for dad. Well Said! Be a great father! Remember you will move on in time! Good Luck! -Andy
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Well...all I can say is, broken hearts heal. Love and life can be very cruel. I know you probably don't think anyone else has been there and no one could understand how much it hurts but you are not alone. I've been there. It can feel like your hearts been crushed. My advice is to stay busy and go on some dates to keep yourself distracted. Your heart will heal..but it will take some time..
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I know how you feel. I went through stuff like that involving kids, too. I do everything I can to get my mind off of bad things that happen. For me, I wash and detail the Tour when I need something to get my mind off stuff. My car has been VERY clean lately!  TheMalibuGuy is right, there are other women out there.
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Keep your head up man theres plenty more out there and see will regret what she did, When she does dont let it slide by, Tell her she has to gain your trust again.
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You know I think that everyone has been there...someone, sometime has had their heart smashed. But like everyone has said just be the best daddy you can be...that is what will really matter. I have been there my ex-boyfriend did the same thing but I found out that there is so much more out there and at least you have your daughter to help you see all the wonderful things out in the world still. "What doesn't kill us only makes us stronger" is something that is true in love too...you learn something from every relationship.
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