So there is a point of posting a HOWTO for our beginner levels. Please, it's not a shame to work out a step by step straight forward instruction that we can follow! Thanks a lot!
Well, I installed mine close to three years ago now, and can't remember what color the wire was. Matter of fact, I didn't tap into the stock wire. I looked at my alarm brain and noticed that it had a wire coming off of it labeled "PARK" or something and figured that was tapped into the stock parking light wire and just tapped into that. Luckily, it worked out.
As far as the adhesive, it worked for me, but we don't get too much snow down here in Georgia. I wanted to hard mount them in the bumper opening, but couldn't figure out a way to get a drill in there so I just used the adhesive. No troubles. After an accident where the bumper was repainted, I used "Household Goop" to put the fog lights back on.. Strong as heck, those things aren't going anywhere.