I'm a PA, so I'll chime in here.
Back pain sucks, and like you're experiencing, it can really change your life. Surgery, unfortunately, isn't the cure-all. That's why many docs are hesitant to send you off to the neurosurgeon.
Also, there are a large amount of buldging discs that spontaneously resolve!
My advice is to try everything else first. Physical therapy, massage, accupuncture, etc etc. Try swimming or walking in the mornings to loosen up.
Realize that you shouldn't do anything that hurts your back - skateboarding, running, etc. Whatever it may be that hurts. So don't fart!

Obviously, it isn't ideal to build a dependance on pain medication. But, if the medication helps you live your life, then it's a trade off that some people need to make. Remember, there IS a difference between dependance and addiction (dependant means you need it to do what you do, addiction means you're using it despite causing self harm).
Good luck.