I checked today at autozone and there are no codes and CEL is off after the incident...running great now....took it through the paces and it feels normal...
only the oil light and the CEL came on

and the car was still running....the car felt like the stalling was caused by some increased friction in the motor followed by immediate oil light which IMHO felt like it was starved of oil for like 5 seconds...but i had 6.5 quarts of good syn oil in it and wasn't driving even remotely hard...any thoughts? maybe freaky coincidence??