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My wife is a smart and good looking 28 year old with 3 kids. The younger guys at her work think she is a "MILF". She has said that this is flattering and jokes about it often. I now come to find out that one of these kids gave her flowers and told her that if she wasn't married he'd be very interested in some stuff. how should I react to this? What would you do?
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After 3 kids, I hope you trust her. Take it as a compliment, she's still with you, NOT the "kids" at her work. Just my .02.
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Give her more flowers than the other guys. 
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I think something should be said. Its one thing to pay her compliments, but giving a married woman (not your spouse) flowers and saying "if only" is inappropriate and way over the line IMO.
If nothing comes of "whats said", then there's always sexual harrasment lawsuits...
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Originally posted by rkneeshaw3.0:
I think something should be said. Its one thing to pay her compliments, but giving a married woman (not your spouse) flowers and saying "if only" is inappropriate and way over the line IMO.
If nothing comes of "whats said", then there's always sexual harrasment lawsuits...
I'm with Kneeshaw... That is way over the line. How did your wife take it? Did she laugh or get shocked and tell the kid what he was doing or saying was inappropriate?
I don't think it's a trust issue between you and your wife, as I'm sure you do trust her. Some things are just inappropriate and not right, and don't have to be tolerated, IMO.
You might need to have a little talk with the boy.
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well just laugh it off. hope that she recognizes you and your families value. now if she starts acting differently then show some concern but if not oh well.
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Your wife needs to put up the "already occupied" sign up and let the brats know she's happily married. Flattery is one thing, but continued advances is something else.
You could do what a pal of mine did that had a very similar situation crop up; have his wife give the [censored] an empty shotgun shell and have her tell him that is in return for the wonderful bouquet of flowers...
He never had another problem.
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Originally posted by dremers vision:
well just laugh it off. hope that she recognizes you and your families value. now if she starts acting differently then show some concern but if not oh well.
True, Relax and realize that she is coming home to you. Im sure she is smart and wouldn't ruin what she has with you and your kids with some newbies at work.
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Originally posted by 00LS5spd:
I now come to find out that one of these kids gave her flowers and told her that if she wasn't married he'd be very interested in some stuff. how should I react to this? What would you do?
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