Ok I sucked it up and got the suspension done. Bat set up with 21mm rear sway bar,new hardware as well, got the svt focus rims on with prox4 got them to match the quote form 1010tires.com so not as bad. but now townfair said my lower control arm are shot and they cant do an aliment so need to work on that next. but even with them shot the car feels way better.