Yeah, I did and thanks for the complete blow-by-blow with great pictures! I got to the point of forcing it also, and got to the point I think I could of forced it out on a lift, but the right side of the bar was on the ground (I had the rear wheels about 6inches off the ground, so it was pretty high already). Looking at the stuff closely, it appeared to me likely that I'd do some damage to something on the tank if I tried forcing it.
My guess is that the closeness in this area is car to car variable. I know I've seen some posts where folks get this job in and done in less than two hours (which I'm sure is doable if the bar just falls out between the subframe and tank). I'm now scratching my head as to what the best approach is, and whether to reinforce the mounts before putting the BAT bar on. I was hoping to have the bar on before a Divisional AutoX this weekend, but I'm not going to push it.
BTW, I'm surprised you needed to shim the mounts to get around the new bushings. It would appear that the new bushings are not standard size?
Again, thanks for the thorough response. This is a great forum.