Try the LKQ store, hit the interior parts link and search for "rear view"
http://stores.ebay.com/LKQonline
I recommend picking one up with a harness, otherwise you'll be trying to track one down... When I got my Autodim/Compass/Temperature mirror I ended up having to buy the cheapest autodim mirror I could find just for the harness, then had to get a temperature probe from a GM parts site (the probe and probe connector were seperate items)... Ended up costing me within $10 of what they were going for with a new install kit.
Then I found a good deal on LKQ with an Autodim/Compass/Temperature mirror with 6" harness and temp probe (with it's harness). Picked that bad boy up for like $45 since it came out of a Chevy Express van. I've seen the ones that come out of trucks and SUVs run up near $70 complete like that, so I guess nobody looks for parts off GM Vans
However, I went to install that in my Sentra one day and found out Nissan's mirror mount is a hair narrower than GMs, so the mirror won't stay on
I will almost bet a mirror coming out of a Pontiac also has a red display... Would be a lot easier to find than an Audi or BMW mirror! There's also a few makes that light up amber...