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ahh I thought so...
learning from mistakes is very good.

I strongly suggest you don't do that again, especially on a first date.
then again, chicks have this uncanny ability of already knowing that a guy feels that way about them, even if he doesn't say it in so many words.

Seriously though, I feel for ya.
hope things turn out in your favor eventually.

Could it be that starving dog looking in the butcher shop window look on our faces?

I think that's true! I had more women interested in me when I was married then I do now that I'm divorced! (And no I never strayed will I was married!)

Hang in there Edward!

Her extra comment was low. Screw it. Go out and raise hell the next couple of weekends. Have fun. Blow off some steam. Liqour is a better friend than many women!

sure, it sucks for you know, but put it into perspective. it was one date? with one girl? there will be more dates, and there will be more rejections, its life. keep your head up and stay positive, dont think about the worst, and be happy with what you have.

Yo you went about total wrong. You have to read the player's handbook If you don't know what that Is then you have no chance friend. All that romantic Sh*t Is out the door those Mom and Pop day's are long gone. I'm 28, single not looking for a long time relation ship and Having a good time here In NYC There plenty of girls out here And It only takes a couple of drinks, A GOOD RAP And a clean SVT.

EdwardC: You have my sympathy, I have been in that position several times myself. I have decided to just stop looking. As many married men will point out, when you aren't looking, all the women find you.

-Pete

Well kool aid,

I mean if the playa system works for you then more power to you. I just don't think that I can attract the quality of woman I am seeking wearing a pimp hat and gold teeth. Don't get me wrong. Those things can probably get you surprisingly far but I would be somewhat out of place wearing a four finger ring and gold studded earrings at the next science algorithm black tie dinner.

You sometimes just have to be a prick to some of them. Look at all the hotties and their prick boyfriends!!!!!

bad advice, as edward seems to be the nice guy type (like me). all i can say is, i've had my heart crushed many a time by girls who i might have thought were "it" but now i have the girl who is "it" and she hasn't crushed me (two months and counting). i know that's not long, the point is: you will know when you've found "the one". you'll know that she feels as strongly about you as you do her. you won't have to put a show on for her all the time (after the first few dates). don't lose hope, but more importantly, don't try so hard. that's how i found my woman. i wasn't looking.

don't want to sound resentful or anything else, but nice guys do finish last. b.s. if anyone else tells you other wise. atleast now adays... :rolleyes: